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Giving Up the ‘Cookie’

In the book “Act Like A Woman, Think Like A Man,” Steve Harvey advises women to wait 90 days when dating a new man before giving up the ‘cookie’.

Goodness, Steve Harvey… Ain’t nobody got time to wait 90 days!  I know I don’t. I’m 32 years old. My ovaries are mad at me for not have another kid after almost 13 years. In 90 days, I’m praying he wants to marry me.

I get what Steve Harvey is trying to say, though. You should get to know someone before you decide to have sex with him.  Who knows? Maybe you won’t even like him after knowing him for a month.  If a man is willing to wait 90 days before he has sex, well damn, maybe he really is a keeper.

If you want to take things slow in your new relationship, then fine. I know there are lots of reasons not to smush too early in a relationship. If you want to take things faster, then that’s also fine.  Do what you want to do if your choice resonates with you.

Ladies, if you feel like waiting 90 days or waiting 9 days that is a choice only you can make. Just remember that your body is your temple, it belongs to you and only you. Love it, appreciate it, cherish it, respect it and take care of it.  Don’t sell yourself short. Know your worth.

I am interested in knowing what my readers both Men and Women think about this waiting 90 days before having sex.

Please comment and let me know.

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